Warning: this post contains a lot of f-bombs.
So. It’s that time of year again, apparently.
What time is that, you ask?
Many of you remember my prior episode with an uninvited house guest.
This one began in very similar fashion. I was awakened around 3 a.m. on a random August night (morning) to see the intruder flying into my bedroom, causing instant panic. I once again fled to the backyard to regroup. My traitor dog hadn’t even waited for me to wake up and assess – she was already downstairs in the kitchen waiting by the back door when I got there. Jerk.
A raccoon was hanging out on the fence in my yard when we got outside.
“No,” I yelled at it, shining my flashlight (and by “flashlight” I mean flashlight app on my phone) into his face. “No, I cannot even deal with you right now. Get the fuck out of here.” He acquiesced.
So there I was, once again pacing in my back yard in the middle of the night, thinking if there is ever anything that’s going to motivate me to get married again, this would be it.
I got super brave this time. My panic sweats led me to turn on the a/c, which meant I had to close the windows, which meant I had to walk through the entire house. Which I did. Clutching the tennis racquet that has lived next to my bed since the last encounter two years ago. I didn’t want to hurt it (mostly because the idea of having to then deal with a dead or wounded bat stressed me even more the fuck out), but I needed to have some defense just in case. The tennis racquet was useful for things like pulling back the curtains to check for Batfucker (yep, I named him) before leaning in to close the window. It was useful for things like reaching into a room and flipping a light switch. I went room by room through the entire house. I closed all the windows. And I didn’t see Batfucker anywhere. I left a couple of lights on and settled onto the couch, figuring out what to do next. And it occurred to me that I had only actually seen Batfucker once, when I first woke up. Was it possible that I had dreamt the entire thing? That there was no bat?
No. Ruby had fled the scene. She has never once left my room in the middle of the night, until now. Clearly she had seen it too. And after about an hour of sitting on the couch feeling like I was going to cry or puke from nerves, Batfucker flew into and then out of the living room. I tried not to freak out. I have learned way more than I want to know about bats, and I know that all it wants is to get out. I scurried to the front door and opened it, and opened the screen door, hoping for a repeat performance from last time when the bat showed itself in somewhat timely fashion. Sadly, however, Batfucker had gone into hiding and refused to take advantage of the exit strategy I had prepared. I was a wreck. And moths were coming inside to have a party. I closed the door and sat paralyzed, no clue what to do next.
Morning finally came. My friend Leonard suggested that Animal Care & Control would come if I called; this was news to me! I dialed, and yep, sure enough, they would send a team. An awesome team, who did a very thorough search, and were super apologetic that they weren’t able to find Batfucker. (On a side note, there are a lot of jobs that would suck. Having to go into someone’s house and look in every nook and cranny for a live bat would be the death of me. I just had a full-body tremor just thinking about it.) It was possible the bat had found a way out of the house. It was also possible the bat was in some tiny spot where they hadn’t located him.
So now I’ve had three hours of sleep, significant emotional trauma, and no closure. (Sounds like most relationship breakups I’ve been through…)
I spent the day walking around my house like some kind of demented tennis junkie, clutching my racquet. I knew it was unlikely Batfucker would make a daytime appearance, but it was my bat security blanket. I poked curtains, towels, clothes in my closet. I held the racquet in front of me, looking up, down, around corners before entering rooms. I was literally scared of my own shadow.
I tried to be rational. Batfucker wasn’t lying in wait for me. He wasn’t trying to sneak up behind me. He wasn’t flying around the house during the day. He might even have been gone.
Except he wasn’t.
I had gone to tap, even though I was so exhausted, both mentally and physically, that I had no idea how I was going to make it through class. I got home just before dusk, trying to psych myself up to behave like a normal human in my own home. I was pissed that I didn’t have a certain resolution. My home is my haven, my favorite place to be, so to be scared of being there was crushing. I took a shower (with the tennis racquet sitting by the tub). I got some dinner ready (with the tennis racquet sitting on the kitchen table). Dinner was in the microwave and I was taking a glass of water into the living room when Batfucker swooped into the room. I am sure this will come as a tremendous shock when I tell you that I freaked the fuck out. However, I did try to keep my head screwed on in the midst of the freak out, and I ran for the front door, shouting at the bat what the plan was: open door wide, go away.
I stood, shaking, on my front porch, when I realized the gravity of the situation: I had gotten separated from both my tennis racquet (kitchen table) and my phone (living room couch). I was completely unarmed, and I couldn’t call for help. But surely it wouldn’t be long before Batfucker would take advantage of the lovely egress I had provided, right?
The Dumbest Bat Ever had infiltrated my house. I sat on my porch swing for half an hour watching through the window, as it flew laps around living room, totally missing the WIDE OPEN DOOR IN THE MIDDLE OF THE ROOM. Surely Animal Control would be able to get it, if only I could call them.
And then he disappeared. Crap. Now my fear became what if Animal Control came and he had gone into hiding again. I crept to the door. I peered inside. I saw nothing. I dashed in, grabbed my phone, and ran back to the porch. I waited a few minutes in hopes that he would return to his circles around the front room. Nothing. No bat. Grr.
I called Animal Control. I explained the situation. They said they would send a team. I sat back on the porch swing. Moments later, an apparent miracle happened: the dumb bastard found the door, and flew out into the night. Batradication complete.
I ran inside and slammed the door behind me. I called Animal Control and said never mind, thanks anyway. I told myself over and over again that there had only been one, it was gone, and there was no reason to be shaking like a leaf, or scared of the dark, or still clutching my tennis racquet (which I had retrieved from the kitchen). Logically I knew it was over, but the heeby jeebies weren’t so quick to relinquish their grip.
I have had three bats during my 3.5 years in the house (y’all didn’t hear about the first one, it wasn’t much of a story, although it’s on the list of reasons why Mourtney is such a great friend). So now I will pay a Large Chunk of Money to have my house professionally bat-proofed. And it will be worth every penny. And it better work, goddammit. (They guarantee it will, so there’s that.)
As I write this, 24-ish hours have passed, and I am about 98% back to normal. Normal, of course, means sleeping with a tennis racquet next to my bed.
Things I have learned/observed/gleaned this week:
- I am not a shrieker. You know how Carrie Bradshaw screams all the freakin’ time, usually over nothing? That’s not me. I’m a yeller. When I saw the bat fly into my bedroom, I did not scream. I shouted, “MOTHERFUCKER!” (Of course I did.)
- If you live in the city and you have a live (wild) animal in your home, Animal Control will send someone any time of the day or night. They’re staffed from 6 a.m. to midnight, but someone is on call those remaining six hours. I had no idea. I hope I never need to call again.
- There is nothing on tv at 4 in the morning. (Just kidding, I already knew that.)
- You can have your house professionally bat-proofed (thank fucking god).
- My friend Leonard is a wealth of information about bat resources.
- Bats are assholes. (I already knew that, too.)
Please, for the love of god, let this be my last post ever about bats.
Note: If you ever have a middle-of-the-night trauma and need someone to talk to, you can call me. I won’t come help you remove a bat, but I will offer moral support over the phone like nobody’s business.
Comments on: "Bats are assholes." (6)
You’re so cute. <(")
Next time I’m calling you. Or just showing up on your porch.
Honey, I just don’t know why you are so freaked out over a cute little bat. Bats get a bad rap. What do you think this bat is going to do to you? He doesn’t eat humans. You’ve got to ask yourself would you react this way if a bird or a butterfly had awakened you? Deep introspection is needed here for you to find out why you are fearful of bats. They are wonderful creatures. They eat mosquitoes. I’d invite him to stay next time. Pet him!
Oh, btw, thanks for making me smile with your blogs.
Joe, I feel extremely confident I would wig out if a bird flew into my room in the middle of the night. A butterfly probably wouldn’t wake me. I have no issues with bats existing. I have issues with unwanted critters in my home. Especially when rabies may be involved.
Rabies? That old song was invented to keep people from molesting bats – a challenged if not endangered species. Fewer bats are rabid than you think. (http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/01/110131133323.htm) That raccoon you so cavalierly dismissed was there to remind you that YOU are living in HIS home too.
I too have been awakened by bats in the middle of the night. Cats are more fun than dogs in this one instance and you will find that racquetball racquets work better than tennis racquets. Mine were coming in the attic, sliding down the cavities in the walls and out through the openings in a pocket door. They are sensitive to noise. Get one of those sound devices guaranteed to rid your house of mice with a high pitched tone. They don’t work at all on mice – but bats will go away from it. Good luck! Easier to live with a bat than live with a man I suspect.
Great post! Thanks for the warning, that is why I decided to read it!!!